Kissing

Yeah, I know I'm chatty today. Get over it.

When is the last time you had a good make out session?
I am horribly ashamed to admit that sometimes I go a day or two without smooching Cullen. I don't mean a peck, I mean a KISS. This happens because when we kiss-kiss, it inevitably leads to him wanting MORE.
The thing about girls (blanket generalization coming up) is this: we have the incredible ability to have a kick ass killer make out session and then roll over and go to sleep without having sex. Or getting out of bed and not having sex, or turning around to finish dinner, and not have sex. For boys, this is more difficult, it would seem.
I miss that- I have to say. I should probably tell him that, but he gets offended easily and it's not meant to offend. I miss being able to make out and not have to go all. the. way. I'm sure my hornier counter parts are wondering what the hell I'm talking about, but come on. WAIT! Here- if you have multiple kids and or/work out of the house and accomplish a ton of shit every day, AND have been with the person you're will for at least 5 years, and have lived with them for at least 2 of those years (that's my unprofessional and likely inaccurate guess as to how long it takes of living with someone before you start realizing that their shit stinks and you're tired of doing all the laundry and the way he or she can go days without vacuuming and the way they leave their socks and clothes wherever the hell they want when the laundry basket is right there and is it too much to ask to make the damned bed when you get your ass out of it?)--- if you live in that space, and you are STILL dominated by thoughts of how soon you can get laid by your other half on a daily basis, I BEG YOU to WRITE TO ME, TO ALL OF US AND TELL US HOW. Men, in general, don't have this issue. It seems to be a female related thing mostly. But I mean it, I'm up for any and all suggestions. I think we have a healthy sex life, but that's the quantity. I don't know what his perception is of the quality (I'm sure he notices a difference between when I'm happy to be doing it and when I would rather not be doing it), but if I was in the mood all the time like he is- well, wouldn't he quit his job and never leave home.

So- back to the point. Making out is spectacular! ESPECIALLY when there's no "have to" following it. Sometimes even taking the "have to" out of the equation will make us want it. And it's always funner to participate in when we don't "have to". You get? A soft, slow, sweet kiss, anywhere, anytime, anyday. Awesome. It's a trillion times better than when you hop into bed, get snuggled and then "start". I like it much more when the "starting" is in the laundry room (with him doing the laundry, preferably), or the kitchen, or the anywhere...and who knows how much time passes, and before you know it....MAGIC! Yes, sir! A kiss is where the magic lays. If I were the husband, do you know what I would do? I would catch my wife when she's between "doing things" and I come up behind her, wrap my arms around her, and whisper in her ear how much I appreciate her. When she inevitably tries to scurry away because she needs to finish what she was doing I would hold on and whisper to her to let me love her for just a minute, I don't want anything but to tell her thank you. Then I would kiss her neck and dance her for a second. When I feel her relax, I turn her around and go for the smooch. The key here is to not start the grind or go for the ass grab.
I think every wife/girlfriend anywhere would respond nicely.
And whose life isn't better after a sweet, lingering kiss?
I know that girls can initiate it also. It's important for girls to initiate it also. But it's harder for a girl to say "I want to kiss you, but I don't want it to cause any expectations of sex." I know I would kiss him a lot more often I could just kiss him and not have it become foreplay instead of a kiss.
But I've always been a boring old coot, haven't I? ;)