...and hospice ROCKS!

So last night I went to go see my Janie. She was in bed, so I hung out with my Mike for awhile, and he went over what I missed and we talked about Corey, and dying and stuff. While I was there Jane's long time doctor called, primary, just to say hi. It was 7:30pm, and she'd heard she was in the hospital and wanted to check in. Wasn't that nice? It was very refreshing to hear Mike talking to her, because there is so much that goes on that we don't see. Then hospice called. She was in a lot of pain last night due to her feet and whatever was happening with them. It hurt her to walk even. They delivered the good TO HER! That is so awesome. No running out to pick up a rx, no, it comes to you. That is BRILLIANT! It was very good to be there. I love them.
Yesterday was a rough ride for all the Hayes kiddos, but it ended up good.

In other kinda funny news, last night I got a call from my other sister in law. She was asking if her almost 13 year old could walk home with the boys today, and I said yes. She said "She also wants to talk to you about boys. Are you ready to go down this road with me again?" ....AHHHHH HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAAHHAAHHAHH!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Do you remember? Do you? Do you remember what happened?! Before? With Kalene? It's what made me delete my old blog! Because I got scared they might find a way to read it. Kalene had (and still has, by the way) a boyfriend and they were sneaking out all the time (no matter what I told her to do) to make out. She was considering having sex. I told her that it wasn't a good idea and that she'd be in so much trouble if the parents found out, but she wasn't going to talk to them about it. I told her if she couldn't be stopped, that I'd buy her condoms to make sure she was safe. I have no idea if it was right or wrong but when I put myself in her shoes, that's what I needed from an adult I trusted.

They got caught- suposedly did not have sex, but got caught having fallen asleep in the boyfriends dad's van.

And shit hit the fan when she told her parents that she had talked to me and that I was going to buy them condoms. They were FURIOUS that I hadn't told them about my conversation with her. The calmest of all of Cullen's brothers came over and YELLED- Y.E.L.L.E.D. at me. I yelled back, and cried and reminded him that I'm not acting as a blind person, what I did I did because I remember what that time felt like, and I love Kalene.

It took Tina a while to soften up, but she did. You don't understand what she's like when she's mad- she's FOR REAL. It's a big deal, and even bigger when you're a sensitive girl like me. Anyway, things have changed in their lives. They MIGHT understand where I'm coming from a little bit better now- maybe. MAYBE. Anyway, I'm not nervous about whatever it is that their youngest wants to discuss. She probably just has things that she's heard about and wants to know what's what. And that's fine. Hopefully my ears won't hear anything that I'll need to decide what to tell and what not to- to the parents.
Wish me luck.
HAH!

I got out all of the winter stuff today. That sucks. Boots, hats, mittens, scarves. I have more gloves and mitts that don't have matches, so I'll do what I did last year- put them in the closet and wait for the other one to show up. Stupid. I should just throw them away. Maybe I'll wait til Caiden wakes up, and is crying (rare), and then do it when I'm not really "thinking" about it. :)